Vincent (Vinny Daze) Civitano Jr.
7 July 1967 Bronx, N.Y. ~ 11 March 1996 Bronx, N.Y.
Today I remember my brother Vincent who passed away at the age of 28. Although I never met him, he passed before I met my birth family, I know him through the pictures and stories shared with me by my family.
I know him through his artistry as a sought after Tattoo Artist.
I know him through his art work.
I know him as a musician and member of the band Demolition Hammer. I can feel his pulse and zest for life through the beat of his drums and through listening to their music on you tube.
I know him by the words and memories shared by his fans.
I know him through the sweetness of these photos.
I know him in the face of my daughter who’s resemblance to her Uncle is striking.
I know him in the mannerism’s and gestures of his brothers, my brothers.
I see him in their eyes reflected back at me.
I know him through his Mom who has anchored us together and accepted me as hers.
I know him through my Uncle who so willingly shares and reflects unconditionally.
Today I whisper ~ I love and miss you ~
May his memory be a blessing and a comfort to all who knew him.
So bittersweet. lump in throat
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Thank you Joy for your comment
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Sharon, your tribute is so touching. He looks like an amazing young man—extremely talented and that sweet sweet smile. I’m so sorry.
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Thank you Luanne. He was a very talented artist outside of tattooing.
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I can see that!
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What a beautiful and moving tribute. I am so sorry that you never got to meet him. Such an awful thing to lose a family member who was so young.
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I love the picture of him outside with the tribal sweatshirt on. Where was that taken?
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Hello – I am not really sure where the photo was taken but I can try and find out. My guess it is over in Europe – Thank you for stopping by and commenting 🙂
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I am a big fan of DEMOLITION HAMMER. Vinny was the best drummer in heavy metal music. You’d pride of him. He was a really talented man. I cant believe he died at 28 years old. So young, so sad.
Thank you for the story of your brother.
Américo. From Argentina.
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Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your feelings. It is very much appreciated 🙂
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I am from Istanbul -Turkey I grew up listening heavy metal including mighty Demolition Hammer . He will be missed forever.
Emre
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Hi cousin absolutely beautiful as usual since Vinnie’s birthday is in a few days I’ve been looking at pics when he was really young and laughing and crying -he was handsome talented sweet intelligent deep and hysterical – I miss him so much and I pray to him to ask him for strength as I battle my kidney disease-he will b missed always-I hope I will c him again one day❤️💋love cousin Karen
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Hi Karen ~ loved seeing your comment and that you are able to follow the blog now. Sending love and strength with this message back ~ hugs!
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